In the French wine business, veuve has become synonymous with champagne and all who know me are aware that the French word for widow is veuve, because of my love for that great elixir of life: Veuve Clicquot.
I came across the story of the ‘veuve’ (as I like to refer to her) back in 2005, when distinguished scholar, Dr Gillian Dow, who knew about my interest in widows, mentioned the Veuve Clicquot champagne brand to me. Gillian’s tip-off sent me straight to Waitrose to search for the champagne I had previously known nothing about. Like so many other widows I have researched, this one turned out to be quite something.
It’s because of Madame Clicquot that the effervescent stuff we love today is clear. It wasn’t always like that. The early champagne developed under her management, ensured that the cloudiness was removed through the process of riddling. Imagine how our perception of champagne would be if the stuff came out looking cloudy?
So often little old ladies, especially widows like the ‘veuve’, are passed off as unimportant, or, quite simply, ignored. We ignore these ladies at our peril. They have not always been:
- old
- without a history
- uninteresting
In fact, some of the stories are so important that they just have to be told.
The French madame on this plaque de muselet is no passive figure, as the image might suggest. She tends not to be very well-known outside of France. Within just 13 years of her husband’s death, this Grand Dame of Champagne was not just one of the most successful champagne entrepreneurs, she was one of the most successful entrepreneurs in Europe. Barbe-Nicole was six years younger than I was when she was widowed. Her story continues to inspire me.
Barbe-Nicole Clicquot Ponsardin, was a wife for seven years, and the mother of a little girl, Clementine. In 1805, she was widowed after her husband lost his short battle with typhoid, or so the story goes. Some have speculated that he committed suicide as a result of the desperation he felt when he saw his business in decline. Could this be one of the factors that motivated his surviving spouse to find a way to make the business work? We’ll never know.
What we do know is that the 27-year-old widow of François Clicquot faced a life of mundanity and boredom that few of us can imagine today. After a prescribed period of mourning (usually a year), middle-class French widows in Barbe-Nicole’s position were expected to re-marry and manage the domestic sphere of the new household or remain a perpetual widow, devoted to charitable work for others.
The idea of fulfilling the dream she had shared with her husband about growing a successful wine business, was out of the question for women like Barbe-Nicole Clicquot. And yet, the ‘Widow Clicquot’, as she came to be known, was not someone who was prepared to accept the status quo. Those of us who know about women’s history, are aware of women like Barbe-Nicole Ponsardin Clicquot and others. Women who refused to accept the rules assigned to them. We also know that it sometimes takes a bit of digging around in company archives and dusty libraries to unearth the stories of these remarkable women. That’s exactly what the New York Times bestselling author, Tilar J. Mazzeo did for her excellent biography of The Widow Clicquot.
We all need to do more of this digging into the archives.
Barbe-Nicole was no stranger to conflict. She was born into a well-connected merchant family during turbulent times in Reims, just 80 miles northeast of Paris. By the time she was 11 years old, her family was fleeing from the revolutionaries. Having made a narrow escape, she soon learned how to navigate her way through choppy waters and it was this ability to observe, act and analyse that makes her story one that all of us should be inspired by. In her widowhood, she made things happen when the odds were most certainly against her.
As the Widow Clicquot’s story so poignantly illustrates, widowhood does not mark the end of the road for women.
Widows are not a homogeneous group who act and react exactly the same. Widows are as varied as their fellow human beings. Some women find an independence and a freedom all but forgotten when they were wives; others push against the discomfort of grief and loss.
There are many routes to widowhood and not all take the predictable death path brought about by the most common killers of men in industrialised countries: cardiovascular disease, cancer and Alzheimer’s. Some causes of death are hushed up. Like the ones that occur as a result of HIV/AIDS, accidental overdose, cirrhosis of the liver and asphyxia. Women become widows after their husbands are assassinated, die in unspeakable accidents or kill themselves after an argument. Regardless of the circumstances, in each situation where the wife has outlived the husband, she faces the unchartered territory of widowhood.
In The Prospect Before Her, Professor Olwen Hufton includes an informative chapter on widows and points out that all women, when contemplating the idea of marriage, will know that they may one day face widowhood. This was undoubtedly the case in situations where the only prospect before a woman like Barbe-Nicole Ponsardin was to find a suitable marriage partner.
For those women who moved from the patriarchal control of the father to the patriarchal control of the husband, widowhood provided one of the only acceptable ways for nineteenth-century women to make their own choices about all aspects of their lives. And the Widow Clicquot spotted an opportunity to call the shots in a wine business that eventually became her empire.
Barbe-Nicole Clicquot knew she was living in uncertain times and that the political situation was in a constant state of flux. She was aware of widows who had gone before her who had somehow managed to run a business. In fact, les veuves in France are so closely associated with the wine industry that they became synonymous with the stuff. There was the Widow Blanc and the Widow Robert, both of whom were entrepreneurs of family businesses.
Gerard Hoffnung used the association between French widows and the wine business in a comedy sketch about France. Supposedly quoting from a letter sent by a Tyrolean landlord regarding the accommodation that was available to tourists, the hilarity is not lost on Hoffnung’s audience as you can hear from the laughter in this audio clip:
‘Standing among savage scenery, the hotel offers stupendous revelations. There is a French widow in every bedroom, affording delightful prospects.’
All humour aside, the Widow Clicquot’s story is one of dogged determination to maintain her independence through widowhood. Despite having to battle against the blockades imposed on exports during the Napoleonic Wars and almost facing bankruptcy, the veuve’s vision meant that she got the champagne from the house of Clicquot to her customers. By the time she was forty, she was fabulously wealthy and was name-checked in many European circles for the quality of the product that featured her name.
But you wouldn’t recognise her as a merry widow dressed in the finest fabrics available in France. Her widows’ weeds were the disguise that enabled her to communicate through fashion, that she had no intention of marrying again and was happy to maintain her widowed status. This is not to say that she didn’t have relationships. She probably did.
In three days’ time, this wonderful widow will have been dead for 151 years. Her legacy lives on through the iconic and instantly recognisable yellow label. So the next time you have cause for celebration, reach for the Veuve. You won’t regret it.
Afterword
Veuve Clicquot was product-placed in Sex and the City. Watch the box set to spot the moment when the girls pour themselves a glass of this delicious bubbly.
Every year since 1972, a female owner or manager of a company is awarded La Veuve Clicquot award for her contribution to business.
Veuve Clicquot sponsors high-end polo events, where the yellow label creates a fabulous backdrop for celebrity posing.
Share your experiences of this fabulous brand. By the way, this is not a promotional site for Veuve Clicquot. As far as I’m aware, they don’t even know I exist.
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